continuing point re patriarchy my prev post below: eg I (male) live in a biandrous relationship for 2 decades - and i still think I am not non-chauvinistic enough for my (female) partner. Males (and male-i-fied females) needs continuously questioning themselves. In fact I am posting anonymously so it doesnt create inconvenience for my partner or her 'other' man. // Why should Paoli be stuck with the image of a dead alcoholic, nevermind what she may have said then in a mixedup disturbed state?
Ananya Chatterjeew- above wrote 'she used Late Siladitya Patranobis as a ladder' - i say besh koreche - paoli's priceless and re ananya's sick male chauvinist post - never mind if written by a female: it implies bringing back sati etc. - and men use women all the time without even realising it: 'woman using man' = actually, not allowing herself to be used... whatwas satyajit ray doing to madhabi?